“You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself. That is something you have charge of.”~J Rohn
How true, you can only change yourself. Your past cannot be changed but how you let it affect you can be steered in a positive or negative, constructive or destructive, life-affirming or life-negating way. Part of that is caring enough of yourself to want the best possible future and part of that is taking responsibility for your own life in the here and now.