“We may pass violets looking for roses,
we may pass contentment looking for victory.”~ B Williams
I was never a rose kind of girl (woman). Give me peonies, anemones, hydrangeas, ranunculus, violets. There is a whole big world of choices out there and sometimes society tries to feed you certain ones, things that work better for them than you. I say go for the choices that speak to your heart instead of what is expected of you.
We cannot always do that but when you have the option, pick the violet over the rose.